Discussions between parents: negative impact on the child

An American study published in the journal Psychological Science reveals that family conflicts, and in particular discussions between parents, can have a negative impact on children's sensitivity and brains.

Researchers at the University of Oregon have analyzed the impact that discussions between parents can have on children's emotions and brains. The sleep of children between the ages of 6 and 12, coming from a disturbed family environment, was observed. The result? Their brains processed the different conflicting emotions that impacted their development.

Taken by the anger of the moment, we often make our little ones witness furious scenes, unaware of the damage we cause in their emotional sphere. This study analyzes the relationship between the intensity of quarrels and the potential impact it has on children. Even a moderate level of conflict between parents would alter basic brain functions in children, causing hypersensitivity to negative emotions.

SLEEP DISORDERS

It would seem that even during sleep, children are predisposed to ruminating and repeating discussions. In fact, during the night the part of the brain related to stress and emotions would be very active, and the load of emotions would turn into anger and stress.

Furthermore, the researchers observed that the brains of children growing up in a hostile family environment would exhibit abnormal activity. The little ones, according to the scientists, would manage the discussions of the adults in their own way, and during sleep, the moment in which one is most sensitive, these would resurface.

It should be emphasized that communication between parents has a strong impact on the child's psyche from the age of 6 months. In fact, babies would be able to differentiate the words of their parents and to understand if the father and mother are arguing or having a peaceful conversation.